Do All Cheaters Think The Same?

  • Published on: 12 February 2020
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  • Mawrk TV
    Mawrk TV   6 minuts ago

    it's sad to know that most girls cheat.

  • Absoon 99
    Absoon 99   7 minuts ago

    Aaah, now that’s some quality bunch of A-HOLES.

  • Luaise Airis
    Luaise Airis   2 hours ago

    Clicked to see if cheaters had something to say that could somewhat justify what they did, guess notttttt. I just don't get how some people expect you to be okay with cheating because 'it happens all the time so man up'

  • Carla S.M
    Carla S.M   5 hours ago

    I sometimes feel like people who cheat constantly are just not made for monogamy, they should try an open relationship or polygamy instead

  • LBuddy
    LBuddy   5 hours ago

    Y'all some sensitivity snowflakes godamn

  • Lisa
    Lisa   5 hours ago

    This video is to educate and express the point of view from a “cheater” and try to understand their perspective. Yet everyone in the comments is just skipping through the video, not listening and still holding their opinion so close to their chest.

  • Lisa
    Lisa   5 hours ago

    * polygamy has left the chat *

  • indesomniac
    indesomniac   6 hours ago

    i feel for hayley — i’m glad she’s out of her abusive relationship now and i hope she’s doing better

  • Wow Wow
    Wow Wow   6 hours ago

    The guys smugness and proudness gets under my skin so much.

  • Joyana x
    Joyana x   7 hours ago

    Been with the same man for literally 10 years, married for 2.5 years and found out he was cheating for over 1.5 years. Immediately kicked him out when I found out and filed for divorce. I am now divorced and so so glad I’m no longer living with a double-faced liar. Cheating is never ever ever okay or excusable. It’s selfish, hurtful and exploitative.

  • PWDMaximum -
    PWDMaximum -   7 hours ago

    you can tell just by how they look. smh.

  • Jess Barroga
    Jess Barroga   8 hours ago

    ..... I was curious about this video... but I could not get through this video without getting mad... I mean yeah don’t beat yourself up about it but don’t accept it ...and know what you did ... it’s wrong to cheat regardless of the situation.

  • Nikkiious
    Nikkiious   8 hours ago

    With the exception of one or two of them I actually admire their honestly and their ability to own up and discuss their mistakes. Don’t understand why everyone is so pressed about something that doesn’t concern them.

  • Hologriham
    Hologriham   8 hours ago

    I’ve cheated twice. Once was with an online relationship which I didn’t take very seriously because I figured we’d never meet in person anyway. I used an alias with this person and pretended to be someone I wasn’t. One of his friends grew suspicious of me out of jealousy and found my Facebook account. In the end, he found out but forgave me anyway. Our relationship has never been the same but we still talk as friends here and there. The second time was with a guy who loved me very deeply. Though, I did not feel the same about him, I didn’t wish to hurt his feelings and turn him down so I went out with him. I thought I was doing him a favor yet only managed to make things worse for the both of us. I had sex with a guy I had a huge crush on but the feelings weren’t mutual and he threw me off to the side like I meant nothing to him. I realized how much pain it is to realize he never loved me so I decided to confront the guy I cheated on and tell him the truth about everything. He also found some way to forgive me and we remain friends. I’ve learned my lesson sense then and I’m happily married to my one true love of 3 years and have a son. Point is, if you don’t think that relationship is right for you, don’t continue to hold that person back from finding THEIR one true love as well as your own. It’s selfish. Break it off properly before you go searching for another partner.

  • Rvrtll
    Rvrtll   9 hours ago

    This whole video made me see the mind of a cheater it still didn’t change my mind about them they’re still ding dongs who have no empathy for anybody else if you don’t like the person LEAVE THEM end of story

  • Aryanna Rose
    Aryanna Rose   9 hours ago

    I'm sorry but the girl w/ the pink hair BOTHERS me, like she talks about how she holds grudges from people who cheat but then she has cheated on 75% of her tf.

  • incog cheeto
    incog cheeto   9 hours ago

    In other words, don't date any of these people.

  • Dbar
    Dbar   9 hours ago

    "Oh yeah if they're toxic then you can legit cheat on them"No...that.... it justifies leaving them

  • phuong Nguyen
    phuong Nguyen   10 hours ago

    in my view, I consider cheating like crime. Cant believe it, these people r super proud of themselves. Send my empathy to all their ex!

  • Elidia Weber
    Elidia Weber   10 hours ago

    I’m sorry but what, why did they all go to agree when it said you can be in love and still cheat WTAF, if you are in love with someone you would have never ever cheated or thought about cheating in the first place and instead of cheating, if you thought some things were wrong in the relationship you could just discuss the problems with your partner and work it out with them NOT cheat if you were truly in love. Seriously can’t believe these people, if your actually in love you would not have the desire to cheat on them and hurt them like that.

  • Baby Ghoul
    Baby Ghoul   10 hours ago

    I think there is something mentally different with how cereal cheaters and zero tolerance people think. Cause people who are zero tolerance are really aggressive, more then I can understand why.

  • Jean Edouard
    Jean Edouard   10 hours ago

    I feel like even if you’re “talking” to multiple people it’s basically considered “cheating” in a way. Especially if tht person is only talking to you.

  • shannon
    shannon   11 hours ago

    i hate how there so PROUD of themselves for bad things.

  • Shido 17
    Shido 17   11 hours ago

    She said they went to counseling and are more open and honest like it was his fault she cheated...

  • Zuzu Límon
    Zuzu Límon   11 hours ago

    jubilee should do a middle ground on thischeaters vs ppl that have been cheated on

  • shannon
    shannon   11 hours ago

    these ppl are so selfish especially the girl with the pink hair i HATED her she was saying how she wouldn’t forgive somebody but SHE was pretty much saying it was okay that SHE cheated or how she was saying that it’s not true how ONCE a CHEATER always a CHEATER isn’t true when it is because iv noticed so many times that once ppl cheat they just do it again it’s in them to do that if ur willing to do it to somebody u love once ur willing to do it AGAIN that’s what i think anyways but there all a bunch of hypocrites saying they WOULDNT forgive but it’s OKAY if they cheat and ADMITTING they enjoyed it disgusting.

  • Shamaya Lee
    Shamaya Lee   12 hours ago

    I love the fact that it’s 4 women and one man like wtf 🙄

  • Cosmic Centaur
    Cosmic Centaur   12 hours ago

    No sympathy for cheaters, especially for people like this who treat what they did like it was a joke haha so funny.You literally broke somebody's heart, you don't deserve them anymore. Not their trust, or their love.

  • Skyline BIT H.
    Skyline BIT H.   12 hours ago

    This is genuinely hard to watch without stopping and pausing.

  • Amaris Cohen
    Amaris Cohen   12 hours ago

    “My boyfriend was 2000 miles away, but my friends cousin was right here so...” you knew what you were getting into getting into a long distance relationship. Smh 🙄